Want to see how powerful and capable you are? Invite change into your life.
Sure, change is often uncomfortable, scary, sad, and difficult at first. But with time and patience, that discomfort can transform into power and strength. When you’re going through something difficult, such as a breakup, it can be hard to imagine that the sun will rise again. But it will, and it will shine with intensity–and bring out beauty that you might not have otherwise known. So, hold tight, and see what happens when you welcome change into your life.
In relationships, it’s sometimes easy to toss around the words, I love you. Sure, it’s not always easy for people to say those three words. And for some, it’s not easy to say those three words without conditional qualifiers attached to them.
Saying I love you is one thing. It’s sort of the easy part in the big picture. Taking those words up to the next level is elevated love. Devotion.
Healthy devotion vs. unhealthy obsession is taking love up to the next level to encompass loyalty, dedication, and healthy attachment to the loved person.
You deserve it all.
You don’t have to settle in relationships. Even in a world of disposable relationships or temporary relationship interest, love and devotion still exist. You deserve the love you seek and desire. You deserve to know elevated love.
Not everyone is going to like you or be your friend. And that’s perfectly okay. Actually, it’s more than okay.
How comfortable you are with the idea of people not liking you says a lot about you.
If it’s really important to you that everyone likes you, and/or you make it a priority to maintain an appearance to the world around you that everyone likes you, then you are probably: living your life to please people, consciously or unconsciously tryingtomask your insecurities, not living your truth,and/or avoiding to let your authentic self shine through because you are afraid of what people will think.
Letting go of a pattern or habit of needing people to like you isn’t an overnight, quick fix. But by bringing awareness to your relationships and patterns, you can come to focus on accepting yourself more, being your own best friend, and focusing less on what other people think about you.